We’re all human here and we are all prone to make mistakes.
Sometimes we make small, tiny, itsy bitsy mistake while sometimes we make huge, heavy and heart wrenching mistakes.
Some of us rarely make mistake while some of us are mistake prone.
At times a mistake may just not be of so much issue and may get discarded without even being noticed by any person other than yourself. But sometimes
Today, we’l talk about those SOMETIMES
1. Confirm Your Mistake :
When you have a feeling that you made a mistake, first we should confirm it. Because we really don’t want to end up saying sorry for mistakes that weren’t mistakes at all.
Think about your “may be” mistake. Carefully see pros and cons. Think about the chronological events that may have happened before and after it. That will help you understand it more.
Think from the perspective of other involved people as well. Try to give yourself all possible ifs and buts. And then finally question yourself whether your action/behavior was justified or wrong.
If by the end of the thinking, your conscious is satisfied, then it wasn’t a mistake, Otherwise, It is a Confirmed Mistake.
2. Analyse The Damage :
Once your mistake has been confirmed you have to find out what damage your mistake has made upon you or the people involved.
The damage that you have upon you may go away with time, but the damage you caused to others, now need to be rectified.
This is essential in order to understand the nature and depth of mistake and also to understand ways and means that the mistake may be rectified.
3. Admitting Your Mistake :
Some people think that admitting a mistake means degrading yourself and a stab on their ego, but honestly and personally, I enjoy admitting mistakes.
It makes you more stronger and develops your personality and attitude into more refined and honored beings.
Also the person to whom you caused the damage, a part of the damage is already filled by your admitting the mistake to them.
4. Filling The Damage :
Remember I asked you to analyse the damage? Now all you have to do is find means, ways and words to fill that damage.
If the damage can be filled with cash, then cash it is.
But if its the emotional stuff, find the right appropriate words and a simple SORRY attached with sincere apology filled feelings.
5. Taking A Stand :
Some people just go as far as only point number 4.
But today at Glamzzle, we are giving you something that will help you be the girl/guy of everyones love and affection no matter how big the mistake be.
When you have done all the above points, your last step is Taking A Stand Of The Mistake You Made.
This means that as much as possible, you will keep protecting, filling the damage and support the people who were affected by your mistake.
If possible try as much as you can to reverse what has happened.
You make sure that you be around them, when YOUR MISTAKE is affecting them.
Remember, your mistake is a MISTAKE and it has definitely caused pain, trouble and damage to someone. When you take a stand for the mistake you made, your forgiven with a happy heart and a smile.
So my advice ?
BUT DON’T COVER THEM. Rather, ADMIT THEM.