All the guys out there, have been in those times when they want to propose a girl but are confused with the manner of proposing. Its not an easy time for any guy because the mere possibility of getting rejected crumbles you inside while the fact that this is a ‘Do or Die’ situation makes it worse.
But we have for you some sure shot methods to give your girl a perfect formal propose that she will never reject.
Organise Everything :
This means that you will plan everything in an organised manner and make it highly formal.
1) Pre-planning :
a) Call her all her and tell her that you want to have dinner/lunch with her. Ask her for the day she is free on and finalize a day. Make sure that you say you will be picking up her from home at XX time.
b) Decide the venue : You may choose a Restaurant, your home, an open sky restaurant, etc. Don’t forget to book the table for the day of your date. You don’t want to end up having no tables .
c) Buy her special gift. You may want to go in for the ring but its not an engagement. So go for something like soft toys with your name written on it, a pendant, a bracelet etc
d) Extra touch : If your venue is an outside place, meet the venue manager and tell him that you want to add extra life to the dinner/lunch. You may ask them to fill the table with rose petals and candles, have some soft music etc
If your venue is home, you may want to call upon your friends and ask them to help you decorate your date area with roses, candles, music, balloons preferably heart-shaped etc.
2) Cross- Check
a) Call her and let her know that you called in to confirm.
b) Call your venue receptionist and confirm the booking.
c) Check all your extra touching. Is your setting ready?
d) Select your dress and keep it ready.
3) DATE DAY :
a) Dress Up appropriately : Since this is a formal propose, a formal attire is a sure call. Dress up in a very gorgeous formal suit. You can find some formal dressing tips in the Fashion section as well.
b) Reach her house 10 minutes earlier than the time you gave and laugh it out saying ” Time was just going too slow so I thought I would speed it up.”
c) Escort her from her door to your car, from your car to the date table with dignity. Let her have her time and take in everything that you have organised. Talk to her casually. Let her have the food of her choice.
4) Propose Her :
Wait for the perfect time. I think the perfect time is while serving the desert. With the right moment and right environment, impress her with your words and express your love in the deepest profound manner.
Give her the gift you bought for her.
Wait for a YES And Yes it sure will be
Good Luck Guys