Whether a woman says it or not but deep down inside, every woman wants a man to be a Prince Charming. Every woman has this idea of her perfect man which, by time becomes the criteria for the man of her dreams. Each time she meets a man, she consciously or unconsciously judges him based on the criteria formed in her mind.
Being a man, of course you are wondering why every woman dreams of a Prince Charming…. Well, let’s start with the fact that the first stories a girl hears as a child are Fairytales. They grow up hearing fairytales and every fairytale makes a picture of a perfect man in their mind.
You may think it’s hard to impress a woman and become the man of her dreams but if you just ponder over the matter, you will find it very easy to become a Prince Charming.
Have you seen how every Prince in a fairytale has a distinct dressing style? Whether its a rich prince or a poor prince ( not a prince actually then, take Alladin for example), they all follow their pattern of dressing.
Follow a dressing pattern but do not make a uniform. Put on clothes that are easy to wear and appropriate to the occassion. Don’t just put on anything and everything. Give it a thought and remember, your looks have to make an impression.
2. Be nice & gentle to others.
One of the key characteristics of a Prince Charming is how he is always loving, caring and gentle to others, specially people lower than him.
Be nice to your waiters, watchmen, hotel valet etc. Give them a graceful smile when they serve you and thank them when they have offered their services. You can also compliment them for their service or clothes. Anything that looks real and genuine.
3. Be a perfect gentleman.
Every Prince Charming is a perfect gentleman in his own way. It’s sweet and it’s a blessing to be a natural gentleman. A girl would be mentally disfunctional not to get impressed with a man who has the perfect touch of a gentleman.
Open the door of your car for her, escort her like a gentleman to your date table, pull out a seat for her and let her sit first and always pour the wine in her glass when her wine finishes.
Let her feel important and lady like.
4. Involve yourself in her life and help her out with her problems.
Rapunzel needed to be rescued from a tall tower, Cinderella and Snow White needed to be rescued from her cruel step mother while Sleeping Beauty needed to be rescued from the spell of an evil witch.
Do you see the pattern?
Your lady may not be trapped in a castle or have a step mother to be rescued from but every woman has something that she fears, something that worries her, something that she feels tangled in. In this way, every woman does need to be rescued from her pain and fearful thoughts.
Be that man who can help her out in her problems.
5. Follow your dreams, have an aim and have a plan.
How will you become the man of your woman if you are not aware of your own dreams or have a goal in your life?
Realize your dreams, understand what you want in life and move ahead with a plan because a man with dreams and a man with plan is a Prince Charming trait. It shows how dependable you are and how much you take your life seriously.
That’s the kind of man a woman wants.
6. Make her feel special, secured and protected.
Nothing makes a woman feel like a princess than being with a man and feeling secured. She knows she cannot be harmed when she is walking with her man because he is going to be there to protect her.
Hold her hand while walking if there is a group of freaky street guys on your way or while crossing the road or over a crooked path. If a stranger is staring at her and you sense your lady feeling uncomfortable, just change your direction where you block the man from staring at your lady.
7. Know what she likes, what she wants in her life and believe her.
From her choice of food to her allergies, try to remember as much as she tells you. This is a very huge characteristic of a perfect man. When you woman tells you that she is allergic to peanuts, next time you order an ice cream, you mention to the waiter not to add any peanuts. This will melt her heart like a butter on a hot skillet.
Take her out to her favorite concerts or games. Guess her favorite food while ordering and ask her if thats what she wants. Never order the food without asking her though.
The path to a woman’s heart is easy if you know the right steps. Love her, lead her and learn her. That’s all it takes for you to become “The Man Of Her Dreams.”