Most girls feel more comfortable hanging around with guys. Why? Because being friends with girls is a commitment to everything. You have to share your problems even if you are trying to forget them for sometime. You have to follow all “Girl Rules” that include calling and giving them information on everything that happens to you.
Girls also dig into each other’s personal life and the more you hang around with them, the more your life becomes an open book to them where they know everything about you. The good and the bad.
While the guys on the other hand are more easy handling and liberal. The only rule they have is to have fun. They won’t dig into your personal life at all. They won’t get upset if you don’t call them to let them know that you are have got a haircut.
If you make any last minute plans they will simply blend in instead of making excuses or fuss about it and being with them means forgetting all your problems and leaving them behind.
So if you are planning to become a guy’s girl, here are a few do’s and don’ts.
1. Suggest & order huge appetite junk foods.
If you are going to talk about having salads or sushi for dinner, the guys are going to leave you at the sushi/salad bar while they flood to the nearest pizza hut to have an extra large double cheese pizza.
Guys don’t like to talk, think or eat vegetables. They are meatball lovers.
2. Take bites not nibbles.
Have you ever noticed a guy when he is eating a burger? He wide opens his mouth and scoops in a huge bite. That’s what you have to do. The only reason girl’s take nibbles is because they want to look more sophisticated but when you are with the guys, who cares how you eat.
3. Take part in burp competitions.
Burping is an oath that you are now one of them. A burp differentiates the guys from the girls. So if you are going to burp, burp out loud. Guy’s love to play the burp competitions to find out who has the loudest longest burp, so pick up your can of soda and try to beat them.
4. Don’t talk rules.
Guys and rules just don’t go together. If you are having a 10 P.M curfew or if you are not allowed to go to the club or if you are grounded, the guys will not understand that.
5. Talk sports, cars, matches.
Guy’s don’t understand those family talks, girl troubles or your fight with your brother. They are allergic to such topics. So if you want to blend in, talk about sports, cars, games and sports, cars, games again
6. Don’t be too dressy.
Unless you are going to a very formal party or occasion, guys like to see you in easy dressing which has not taken hours for you to get ready. Those messy out of bed hair look great and high heels are a no no. Dress like a tom boy when going on casual hang outs with the guys.
7. Be comfortable and don’t try to0 hard.
Being comfortable with what you do, what you wear and with what you love is the key to a good relationship with the guys. Trust me, guys have a very sharp sensing skill and they will know when you are not being yourself or trying too hard to blend in.