Earlier we spoke about about Kids Barrier In A Relationship. Today we are going to talk about Past Barriers In A Relationship. Everyone has a past admit it or not. Crush, love, love at first sight, affections, lust…Name it.
These memories get embossed in your memory. And try as much as you can, good or bad memories are never lost. They may fade as time passes but will never get erased. These are exactly the past memories that may affect your present relationship if not handled wisely and damage your future.
So we just said that these memories never vanish, then how can a person avoid getting these memories in their present life?
That’s not hard, come to think of it. Sensible people are those who keep their memories locked in a box. They keep this box in the far end of their heart so that this box does not make hurdles to the memories lying all around.
If you had a past relationship which has made a strong memory in your heart, you must remember that you are now in a new relationship. You have committed yourself to someone now and by digging out your past life, you are not only ruining your own life but also hurting the people around you.
Move on. As easy as it may sound, we know it’s very hard to move on but if you keep looking back at what you have lost you are just going to miss what you have right in front of you. You will never know how beautiful your present really is, until you close those doors of the past.
Look at what you have right now, right here and open your eyes to how beautiful life is. What’s gone, is gone. Treasure your memories of the past but make new memories today for a better future.