Yeah we had to do this blog for Robert Pattinson to help him decide whether he should let Kristen Stewart back in his life or not after she cheated on him with an affair with Rupert Sanders and now that Rupert Sanders & Kristen Stewart Banned From Working Together, should he forgive her?
So today we are going to talk about a very important question, “Should You Allow A Cheater Back In Your Heart & Life?”
There are a few things to kept in mind before you can decide on this decision that will either make your break heart. Most certainly this is a very tricky decision because a person who can cheat on you once can cheat on you again but it is also true that a cheater who returns with full heart will never go astray.
Now that has made things more complicated then it already was . Let’s see a few things you should consider while taking up this decision.
1. Can you forgive him/her truly and completely.
It becomes very difficult for a person to gain his/her trust back again on a person who has broken it once. It is very important to know if you will be able to truly and completely forgive him/her.
Otherwise it is very much possible that you doubt them on the slightest point of doubt even though they may not be doing anything wrong.
2. Is the explanation he/she gave behind the cheating worth believing?
It is important to know why he/she cheated on you. Was it a one time carried away beneath drugs or was it a long planned emotion that came up when the emotions were high.
Whatever the explanation(s) may be, is it worth believing?
3. How did you come to know about the cheating?
If he/she took the courage of coming to you directly and telling you about the cheat and being guilty for it then you have a good chance that the person is feeling sorry and wants to correct whats wronged.
But if you found out about it yourself through other means and then he/she apologizes, then it may be a temporary move to get out of the situation.
4. Will that memory become a past or will it remain a part of your relation forever?
It’s very hard to keep walking with a cactus in your hand for the rest of your life. But if you just had to pick the cactus once and put it in the trash bin so that you never have to see or touch it again then it is worth taking the pains for.
5. Are you ready to take your chances?
A glass once broken will always show cracks and will break on the slightest of shock. A person who has had the nerve to cheat on you and break your trust may or may not do it again. It is you who has to decided whether you are ready to take your chances on him/her.
Will you be able to handle if this happened again?